Most of us might have faced this confusion at least once during preparing a very formal business communication. Hence, the anxiety of committing a grammatically incorrect choice!
The key is:
1) Remove the accompanying subject and object.
2) Make the decision.
3) Restore the omitted word(s).
Examples: Select either: I, me or myself
Ali and (??) prepare the document.
Please send the document to Ali and (??).
I will bring the required documentation for Ali and (??).
Answers:
Ali and (??) prepare the document.
Step 1\2: I prepare the document.
Step 3: Ali and
I prepare the document.
Please send the document to Ali and (??).
Step 1\2: Please send the document to me.
Step 3: Please send the document to Ali and
me.
I will bring the required documentation for Ali and (??).
Step 1\2: I will bring the required documentation for myself.
Step 3: I will bring the required documentation for Ali and
myself.
PS:
Myself is used for an action done by the speaker and involves the speaker .
Detailed description about the process (Thanks Jennifer Walker):
http://voices.yahoo.com/common-grammar-mistakes-part-one-me-myself-i-570103.html